WHAT EVERY WOMEN SHOULD KNOW

1. BE A MOTHER TO HIM: As a woman, you should be a mother to your husband. Remember he left his mother so as to cleave to you. So you must close any gap his leaving his mother might have created in his life. One thing I knew about my mother, before she died was that, she was always there for me. when we were younger, she made sure that she always cooked for us. And back then there was no food as sweet as mother's food. Women, so also you must learn to cook for your husband. As a good wife, you must ensure that you discourage your husband from always eating in chop bars. Don't encourage your family to eat outside, it is usually more expensive and also the food served will not be as nutritious as the one you made yourself. Also, you must pet and cuddle your husband. You may condemn Delilah in the bible, but there is one thing she has that most women lack today: She was able to create a God made pillow on her laps for Samson to sleep on. Samson got so carried away that he did not know when he gave away the secret of his power. You too can make a nest on your laps for your husband, not so as to destroy him as Delilah did, but to encourage him to go on. Do not let some sweet sixteen Delilah outside take him from you, God has given you all it takes to win him to yourself alone. Iwant you to understand that in every man there is a kid that is waiting to express himself. He may be tall and macho but that is all a facade behind the outward appearance, there is a little boy crying put for mummy's attention. The wise woman is she who has learnt to allow this kid expresse himself without the fear of being insulted.

2. PROTECT HIM: Everything is born with a weakness. God has made it that way so that we can complement each other. As a woman, as soon as you discover your husband's weakness try to cover him in that area of his weakness. Please do not use your mouth to run him down, or make him feel less than a man. If possible stand on his side and help him overcome the weakness. In 1 Sam. 25:9-25, the Bible tells a story of a man called Nabal, a time came when David wanted to destroy the man and his household because of his wickedness but his wife stepped in and because of what she did her family was saved. Woman, stand in the gap for your husband. If he is weak in showing appreciation to people then take the initiative of calling them yourself and appreciate them. You can even buy a thank you card and say it is from your husband, in so doing you are covering him up and God will bless you and also deliver your family from destruction.

3. SEE HIM AS YOUR HERO: As a woman, you must see your husband as your number one hero. Your husband may fail outside but let him know that in spite of his failure he is still your hero. I know it may be difficult especially if you have a lazy man as a husband. But you must still see him as your hero. In every man there is a hero. You may say a hero in my husband? Yes, there is a hero in him, may be the hero in him has been swallowed up by alcohol, women, poverty or sickness, with God you can bring that hero out of him.

4. SERVE HIM WITH MIGHTY DIGNITY AND RESPECT: The first thing you must understand as a wife is that, my position as a wife is a call from God. And understanding of that will make you serve your husband with respect. You must work hard to please your husband. Go out and learn how to cook and serve your husband. Even if you don't have money to learn outside there are some TV shows were you are thought how to cook and keep the home. Don't dish his food as if you are giving it to a dog. Don't leave your house girl or relation to serve him. And if for any reason your girl or sister has to prepare the food you must make sure you supervise the serving. Men by nature are naturally drawn to anybody who satisfies their belly, so you must watch who is serving your husband. I have seen some woman lose their homes to their maids or relations because they left everything about their husbands in their care.
To be continued.....

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